Stress = Fat: Is your lifestyle hijacking your best efforts?

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Lisa M Thompson

Delving in a little deeper from where Margaret left off in our last blog post, I wanted to offer you some real practical solutions that are fairly easy to implement if cortisol is hijacking your best efforts at staying in a parasympathetic state.

AND we’ve got a very special promotion here at Eat Naked to support you during the summer months! (In a hurry? Check it out here.)

Are you frustrated the numbers on the scale won’t budge? Do you have a seemingly endless number of deadlines to meet? Is there the day to day challenge of trying to balance work, life, family and friends? What about the struggle to just do the right thing to get all the information you need to make the right decisions and choices – about EVERYTHING?

Stress Physiology 101:


The Standard American Diet (SAD) with it’s never ending sugar spikes and crashes also trigger the release of cortisol…. And when there’s too much cortisol in the blood, where does it go? You got it: Directly to FAT storage.

The body’s main goal is to always be in homeostasis, equilibrium, and balance. The body’s natural state is health, not dis-ease. It strives to be in a parasympathetic state (aka: rest and digest = RELAXED as opposed to a sympathetic state = SURVIVAL).

Simply put, when we are stressed we absolutely work against ourselves – all those things we so desperately want to achieve, get hijacked by a hormone.

The antidote you ask? Finding ways to stay in that parasympathetic – relaxed – state.

Take Kathleen, a client of mine who is a perfect example of this phenomenon, and who I think on some level we can all relate to. I’m going to share with you some of the work we’ve done together to help her decrease her cortisol levels and increase her health and vitality.

Kathleen is a super happy, people-pleasing and energetic spirit. She has an extremely demanding job working as an executive assistant at a large hospital, and struggles with long hours at a stressful job and staying on top several projects at a time. Kathleen loves her work and gets great satisfaction knowing she is very good at her job. However, she suffers from physical/mental/emotional issues that stem from adrenal fatigue, if not full out adrenal exhaustion.

In the last few years she has suffered from acid reflux, anxiety, and an inability to get good sleep – all of which have been treated with medication. When the weekend rolls around she is often unable to get out of bed until noon, and if she catches a cold, or a touch of the flu – she is OUT for at least a week if not two!

Here are some of the ways I guided Kathleen towards getting into her parasympathetic nervous state.

  • She stopped beating herself up on the treadmill and going to boot camp or spin classes, and switched to Pilates and restorative yoga classes, and spending more time with animals (scientific evidence supports the calming effects animals have on humans).
  • She started making better dietary choices by increasing her intake of good dietary fats (fats are required to make hormones) and adding sea salt to the water she drinks (each endocrine gland has a mineral that is especially nurturing to it, for the adrenals it’s sea salt, the thyroid loves iodine, etc..).
  • When she took a new job last spring she made it clear to her new boss that her health is a priority, and has begun to slow down – she takes breaks at work to walk around the block and get some fresh air, and takes her lunch away from her desk, mindfully eating and breathing to aid in digestion.
  • Thanks to the changes she made through our work together, Kathleen’s acid reflux has completely disappeared, and the medications she uses to ease anxiety and assist with sleep, have all been lowered, and her hope and intention is to be off all medication soon.

Isn’t she inspiring? What from Kathleen’s story can you implement in your own life?

Here are some other ways to help ease you into parasympathetic mode:

  • Meditation. This doesn’t have to be time-consuming or complicated. Just sitting with your eyes closed for 10 minutes a day, with the tip of your tongue fixed to the roof of your mouth and focusing on your breath, a spot on the wall, or the flame of a candle will do the trick.
  • Deep breathing exercises. Breathing IN through the nose for a count of 8, holding the breath for 6, and breathing OUT for a count of 8.
  • Consciously visualizing your self in a serene and peaceful setting. Get specific, a meadow/forest/lake/mountain top – define it and describe it in your mind: flowers, trees, snow, sun, cool or warm air, smell, etc..
  • Just closing your eyes and seeing/guiding your breath as it moves through your body to spaces and places where energy might feel “stuck”: inhaling through the nose, and exhaling through the mouth (with energy through a small opening of the lips) to blow out/ removing any toxins, stagnant energy or debris that isn’t serving you.
  • Another great place to live in your mind is in a state of gratitude. When we focus on gratitude, be it someone or something we are truly grateful for, or holding in our thoughts someone who we aspire to be more like, one who embodies the true essence of living in a state of grace: compassion, loving kindness, humor, respect of self and others, sense of peace and well- being. When we are living in a state of gratitude, stress cannot exist there, nor can fear, anger, frustration, shame or any other number of emotions that ultimately do not serve our well-being. When we live in a state of grace and gratitude, we are more able to return to homeostasis, equilibrium and balance.

Enjoy your return to homeostasis and on your way home, to your true state of being, leave a comment below and let us know what triggers your cortisol response and how YOU find your way back home.

Would you like my support?

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Summertime gives us a great opportunity to focus on relaxing and stress reduction, as we enjoy the sun, long days to spend a little extra time with friends, taking vacations, and getting outside in nature.

If you are feeling overwhelmed by the stressors in your life, and think cortisol and its effects could be the culprit, and you could use some help in trying to implement dietary and lifestyle changes that could make a huge impact in the way you feel each day, we would like to help you!

This month at Eat Naked we are pleased to offer a special promotion that specifically addresses these issues.

The program includes 4 one-hour sessions over an 8-week period and would require a commitment to each session.

Session 1: Initial Assessment – We’ll review your health history, discuss your goals, and determine specific dietary recommendations for healing foods that are designed to remove stress.

Session 2: Nutritional Assessment Questionnaire – We’ll dive even deeper into your body’s needs with in depth recommendations tailored to your diet and lifestyle.

Session 3: Your Parasympathetic Program – We’ll design a program just for you based on your unique life situation, stessors, and goals. You’ll learn stress reduction techniques that will serve you for years to come.

Session 4: Movement Program – We’ll discover the movement program that works for you, and emphasizes a return to parasympathetic (relaxed) state of being.


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